Saturday, October 10, 2009

Great Ideas for Wedding Guestbooks

Years and years ago, a wedding guestbook encouraged and assisted newlywed couples in remembering who attended their wedding, organizing thank-you notes, and beginning a formal address book for all future contact. In today’s crazed and frenzied modern world, the majority of wedding guestbooks end up being set aside in some dirty old nook. If you want to make your guest book something special, significant, and memorable for all parties, then follow these wonderful tips and ideas.

First of all, be certain that everyone who enters signs the guestbook. That’s a pretty surefire thing to do, but a lot of people forget to do it. Have an attendant on hand to assist in the signing process. A member of the bridesmaid or bridal party is a good person to assist in the sign-in process. Bring the guest book around to the rehearsal dinner, reception, and dinner. Make sure everyone signs it no matter what. This sacred memento will stay in your family for years.

Another savvy tip is to make your guest book personal. This is simple. Instruct your guest to write down their names, addresses, and a short congratulations speech. Have them write down their favorite memories, advice, or even use your invitations to request guests to bring photographs of your previous shared times together. Guest books can be the culmination of years of friendship, and you can peruse it later on in life.

Don’t limit your wedding guestbook to simple words. Make sure that photos and such are included too. Slots for Polaroid pictures are great. Snapshots of your guests are super fun to look at in later years. Polaroid instant photos are the route to go here. Your guests should be aware that they’re having their photos taken. Wedding invitations can contain photographs of the couple. Make it a photo-friendly event with lots of super snapshots from your friends, family, and relatives.

Wedding invitations don’t have to be boring. Spice them up, imbue them with your personality, and make them as beautiful as you and your prospective spouse are going to be. There are only so many ways that you can personalize a guest book, but the whole process begins when you send out personalized wedding invitations. People need to know that your wedding is more about family and less about formal procedures. There’s nothing quite so poignant as a loving story.
By Jeff Fain


see also my other post on white wedding, wedding day and wedding favor

Sunday, October 4, 2009

White Wedding Dreams of Every Young Girl

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The white wedding dreams of every young girl are the driving force that creates a “bridezilla” out of a gentle and sweet mannered woman. If you are planning your wedding, it would be a great idea to stop and take a deep breath. Weddings have a way of spinning out of control when no one is looking. Suddenly, what began as a simple event to celebrate a lifelong love becomes a wildly expensive, out of control party that has a mind of its own.

Organization Is Fundamental To Remaining Focused On Wedding Budget

As you begin to plan your wedding, the very first day, make sure that you are focused on the wedding budget. The budget is going to be the only way you have to monitor the direction in which your wedding is moving. As your wedding begins to grow into an actual event rather than a simple concept in its planning stages, the wedding budget will be the best thing to help keep the spending focused.

Friends and family will not try to prevent you from buying the many different expensive extras that so many brides believe they need for their white wedding. These are the people that love you and want your dreams of the expensive white wedding gown, individually, hand-caligraphied white wedding invitations and the expensive white wedding decorations that will tie the entire theme together; not the individuals that are monitoring your spending habits or raining on your parade.

If you keep a close eye on your wedding budget you will always have a good idea of how expensive your wedding actually is becoming and how to keep the white wedding dreams alive without turning the wedding into a money pit.

Watch the Dollar Signs When Building the White Wedding of Your Dreams

It is no secret that weddings cost a great deal of money but they don’t need to send you to the poor house. With a bit of research, an eye for sales and the willingness to put effort into finding ways to cut costs, you can have an expensive wedding for very little expense.

Simple Ways to Cut Costs When Planning a White Wedding

Choosing to hold your wedding day is an easy way to save an incredible amount of money. Afternoon Sunday weddings or evening weddings on a Friday night are both economical alternatives to the Saturday night sit-down wedding. If you are not concerned with the specific date or the day or your wedding, you could choose a less expensive alternative to allow you more money to spend on other aspects of the wedding.

The most important part of planning your white wedding is to remember the love that created this wedding and focus on the importance of keeping that love as strong as possible and less about the expensive white wedding shoes that you cannot live without.

see also my other post on wedding favor, sample and creating wedding invitation

Friday, October 2, 2009

Look your best on your wedding day

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In any Indian wedding, the look of the bride and the groom on the D-day is very important. Especially, the look of the bride, her clothes, her jewelry and make-up are given a lot of stress. In fact, in Indian matrimony, brides find it a very special thing to get ready for the ceremony. To look her best on the day of her wedding is every bride’s dream. Since marriage is the most important day of her life, she doesn’t want to leave anything to chance. Be it Hindu matrimony, Punjabi matrimony, Gujarati matrimony, Rajasthani matrimony or marriage from any region of India, the bridal look is generally very bright and colourful.

People can splurge up to any extent these days for the perfect wedding look in Indian matrimonials. But sometimes spending less can also get you the look of your dreams if you style yourself smartly.

Right from the outfit of the bride, to her make up, jewelry and hair-do, attention is given to even the smallest detail to make her look perfect on the matrimonial day. Brides have a lot of variety of wedding dresses to choose from like lehengas, saris, salwar-kameez or ghagara choli. However, the most popular outfit is lehenga choli. There is a whole market segment catering to the bridal demand of different types of lehengas. This outfit is worn on the main wedding day as well as the engagement ceremony and the other pre wedding rituals. It is an ancient dress and is available in traditional as well as modern form.

In Indian Hindu matrimony, red is considered the most auspicious color so red colour dresses for brides are very popular. But these days, variants of red colour such as maroon, pink, magenta, fuschia and wine have also become popular. Some brides also wear green or blue colour. The bold ones are experimenting with colors such as white, deep purple or other shocking colours. The right colour for lehenga is very important. Generally, the colour is chosen keeping the complexion of the bride in mind. For day time wedding ceremonies, one can choose colors like peach, lilac, pink, sky blue, sea green and for the evening wear, bright colors can be chosen.

Not just the colour but the style and the cut of the lehenga are equally important. It is the cut, style and colour that come together to make the perfect wedding dress for the bride For saris, these days, there are very different drape styles that make this ancient outfit look absolutely trendy and cater to the taste of the new age bride. The threadwork and the embroidery on the sari or lehenga should be carefully chosen too. The embroidery can be heavy or intricate, monotone or in different colours but it should suit the style of the bride.

Apart from lehenga, make up and hair do are also equally important. On the matrimonial day, brides ask their beauticians and stylists to give them the perfect make up which makes them stand out in the whole gathering. A glowing skin gives extra edge to beautiful skin. So, it is important for the bride to take care of her skin days in advance before the actual wedding day. Days preceding the marriage, she should avoid spicy, oily and junk food. Basically, anything that could give skin an allergy, irritation or swelling should be avoided. Obviously, drinking 8-10 glasses of water everyday will help. It not just flushes out toxins from the body but helps in giving a glowing skin.

Once you have a radiating skin, you are ready to decorate yourself for your special day. Preceding the matrimony, all care should be taken to keep feeling happy because it will reflect on the face. Sometimes, the beauticians conduct the mistake of overdoing the bride make up. If the clothes and jewelry are heavy, make up should be light. The bride’s face should look sober and beautiful and not overdone.

These days, the trend is to do glossy and shimmering make up. Once the make up is matched with the skin tone, it can make even the average looking girl look really gorgeous and attractive on her wedding day. The wedding get-up is not complete just with the dress and the make-up. Jewelry, footwear and hairdo are the other important things. Pearls, diamonds and the evergreen gold are the hot favorites of the brides. Indian matrimony is incomplete without loads of jewelry. Lastly, hair do should be given utmost importance. Generally, high buns are preferred by brides. Head accessories are also used to give extra style to the bun.

Taking care of all these things, an Indian bride is ready to walk the aisle and catch attention of all. Evan average and below average looking girls become the beautiful Indian brides on their wedding day. Thus, India matrimony is not just about show and celebration but also looking and feeling your best.
By Geetika Jain of
Jeevansathi.com


see also my other post on wedding invitation, wedding favor and wedding event planning

Friday, June 19, 2009